If you are single, you probably resonate with questions like these. Whether you've never been in a relationship or are alone again for the first time in years, you know the long list of worries that comes with it. First, the insecurities about your past: Did I miss my opportunity? Is there something wrong with me? Am I too messed up to be worthy of love? And then, those fears about your future: Am I running out of time? Do I need to hurry up and fall in love? Am I going to be single for the rest of my life? But what if, rather than a curse to endure, singleness is a gift to enjoy? With disarming humor, personal stories, and deep dives into Scripture, thirty-something single pastor Ryan Wekenman highlights how singleness is a gift that benefits not only singles but everyone else too. Sure, the struggle of being single (especially in the church) is real, but when you leave shame in the past and let go of anxiety about the future, you can start thriving today.