Ben and Ann Wilson help couples navigate the painful journey through an affair toward reconciliation and a stronger marriage. They help couples out of their experience as licensed professional counselors, and out of their own story of unfaithfulness, betrayal, and redemption. This book will:



Help you heal your broken hearts


Offer hope in your pain and sorrow


Give you room to process your anger


Guide you in rebuilding trust


Assist in understanding why you did what you didn't want to do


Free you from the chains of shame and guilt


Provide guidance to connect on all levels of intimacy



"Stories of marital infidelity are commonplace, while stories of restored marriages are precious and few. In this extraordinary book, Ben and Ann Wilson weave their story of broken marriage vows and broken hearts into a tapestry of beauty, redemption, and restoration. From page one through the last chapter you'll encounter refreshing honesty, compelling hope, and healing direction that can save and transform your marriage. This book is so powerful I'm making sure to keep an entire case at my office to put in the hands of every couple I come across."- Michael John Cusick, author of Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle & President, Restoring the Soul

"Betrayed and Betrayer is a journey through pain, deep soul searching and raw honesty. Ben and Ann open the door and generously let us in. This is a book for those seeking healing from an affair - but it is more than that. It is a journey for all who seek deeper intimacy and honesty in their marriage." - Pamela Pedrow, Licensed Professional Counselor and Speaker

Ben and Ann Wilson are Licensed Professional Counselors with twenty years of experience leading conferences, intensives and counseling individuals and couples. They've spoken internationally and appeared on television shows including Good Morning America. Their blog at marriagesrestored.com has received over one million hits.