Gentlemen, it's important that you bring order, structure, peace, and stability into your life. Your parents need you, your wife needs you, your brothers and sisters need you, and your children need you. More importantly, God needs you to be strong fathers in your household, vigorous leaders in your community, and powerful individuals in your spiritual life. Aside from the fact that the world is jealous of you and intimidated by you, another reason many of you black men are at the bottom of the totem pole is because you continue to fall for the same tricks and run into the same traps. What we're missing as black men is our understanding of who we are, our appropriate culture, and our spiritual connection with God. Believe it or not, these are the things that will not only empower you, but it will also lead you to a promising future.