If you have ever wondered why you spend so much time worrying about that phone call that never came and the guy who fell in love with you the night before, then Blind Spots is the book for you to read. Understanding that perceptions are everything and that women often look at a chance meeting with some stranger as the one, and begin making wedding plans after the first wave of we and our! This amazing book tells it the way it really is and suggests that instead of looking at each party, event, encounter as a place where you might just find the one, rather look at yourself as a director filming a movie, and all the people you meet are actors vying for a role in your upcoming film. This way your perceptions of what is real and what is fake are tuned in and you won't find yourself feeling badly when that special guy you just met doesn't call. That said the book in a treasure trove of self inspection and amazing lessons that will empower you to change your relationship views and life. Author Summers is no stranger to relationships and says plain and simple, if it's broken and you can't fix it NEXT! This book is a must read for those interested in a relationship with another and with themselves.