Loneliness: Isolated in Self-Centredness

Loneliness is not the absence of others — it is the thought of separation.

In Loneliness: Isolated in Self-Centredness, we explore the subtle nature of loneliness as something far deeper than being alone. One can be surrounded by people and still feel utterly disconnected. This book reveals that loneliness arises not from the lack of relationship, but from the inner fragmentation created by self-centred thinking.

Rather than seeking escape, distraction, or comfort, this inquiry moves inward — to observe the structure of loneliness, its causes, and its continuity. Through self-awareness, not resistance, a new understanding emerges.

What you'll uncover:

• When and why loneliness arises, and what the experience actually reveals


• Why common strategies of escape and distraction only strengthen the root problem


• How our concept of loneliness distorts our relationship to it


• Why direct observation is the only path to understanding — and ending — loneliness


• How the root of loneliness is isolation, born of identification, comparison, and inward separation


• The illusion of "missing out", and how it sustains the psychological craving for connection without understanding

This is not a book about fixing loneliness with social strategies or positive thinking. It is a careful exploration of how loneliness functions in the mind — and how awareness of its movement brings clarity. When one sees loneliness without escape or resistance, isolation ends — not through effort, but through insight.

The mind that is self-centred is always alone — even when surrounded by others. To end loneliness, one must understand isolation.

Perfect for readers of J. Krishnamurti, David Bohm, or anyone exploring the inner dimensions of suffering, thought, and relationship, Loneliness: Isolated in Self-Centredness offers a quiet but radical transformation through deep self-understanding.