This isn't your typical ADHD book. No productivity hacks. No patronizing checklists. No sugar-coated nonsense. I put my heart and soul in this book and my ADHD RSD Workbook - my other books are basic ADHD education e-books.

This is the truth they've refused to tell you.

For decades, ADHD has been dismissed as a childhood disorder, minimized as a focus issue, and buried under useless advice. But what if the real problem isn't you?

What if the system is wired wrong?

In this raw, unfiltered exposé, Navy veteran and ADHD advocate Theresa Alfonzo dismantles the broken narrative surrounding ADHD. She reveals the emotional chaos, rejection sensitivity, and unrecognized trauma that define the real experience of living with ADHD—especially for adults.

Inside, you'll uncover:

• Why emotions govern executive function—and why that changes everything


• The truth about misdiagnosis, emotional dysregulation, and "mood-based capability"


• How the DSM failed to capture the full reality of ADHD


• The silent suffering of women, veterans, and adults misdiagnosed for decades


• A revolutionary model that explains what others missed: ADHD with Emotional Governance (ADHD-EG)

This book doesn't offer hope. It offers truth.

And once you see it—you'll never unsee it.